DISQUS

AnywhereMan: Am I Primarily a Freelancer – or A Stay At Home Dad?

  • Jeremy · 3 months ago
    I think the honest answer is a lucky dad. So many people have to live in the gray cube farm and not be around their kids for 12 hours a day, only to go home and put them to bed. Although my daughter does Montessori during the day... I appreciate the flexibility to be able to drop her off/pick her up and also to have her stay home when she's sick or not at school. This is a much better scenario than the typical one!

    Jeremy @ RefocusingTechnology.com
  • JakeDOlson · 2 months ago
    I'll just go on the record here by saying that there are definately pros and cons to "being able to fill in once and a while" around the house. As someone who works from anywhere, but also works on an agreed upon set number of hours, I find myself feeling guilt and pressure when I take an hour with the kids... because I know I'm gonna have to make that hour up some time, so I find myself in the "not fully present" state of mind when I'm with them.
  • daveyank · 2 months ago
    I agree 100% - there are pros and cons. I find that I almost have to plan on not getting any work done during these times, and if I am able to get work done it's a bonus. The topic of being "fully present" comes up at our house as well. It definitely takes discipline and practice to get the work/family balance down when you work from home.